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There is so much more to me...I am not my disabilities

Before injury I was a highly effective and skilled medical professional. I loved my job and my friends. Everything changed after my fall. Besides a limp and the occassional blonde I am still me. I have not dated since my accident. I am tired of pity and seek the same passion and chemistry I had before. I am no different. It just takes some more time to prep to go out. I have been made fun of and it has hurt my self esteem greatly...I would love to lie and say that isnt the fact but when a man doubts that I could ever run a organ and tissue transplant and research facility or that I am a very erotic person. They dont get to that point because I shut them down with the first put downs. I have held out for the right pity date or hook up for me. If you cant spin my head and body with your charisma and intrigue then I just dont allow the physical to come out. I have dated someone with terminal cancer before my accident so your physical matter what they are... will not deter me. Approach me like a woman. Treat me like you would like to be treated and lets see where it goes.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
Height178 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthNeck length
Best featureEyes
Body ArtScarred
Health ConditionDisabled
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationAll is calm
Wants to RelocateYes
Have PetsDog
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Job TitleCertified Tissue Bank Specialist

Leisure & Fun

Music typesNew age, Ambient, Soul
Reading selectionHealth, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Religious, Science
HobbiesExercising, Reading, Learning, Religion, spirituality


SmokerQuitting smoking
DrinkingDon't drink
Social behaviorObservant
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Outcast
Sense of humorSadistic
My great timeHanging out with friends, Going shopping, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading a book, Playing dress-up, Going to a concert
Always wanted to trythere is so much but walking is limited to small burst...usually i plan for a longer day and take my time. This way I avoid going into wheelchair or going back to walker. I worked hard to teach my self to walk again without any insurance at the time. Actually I love to swim more than anything.


Political viewsDemocrat
ReligionUnitarian Universalist

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Boldness, Oddities, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partneri need someone to be the flirtatious one as I would be so afraid to be treated poorly. Give me the sign and I am with you. Just very gun shy from mean comments and not being seen as a woman..a sexual being. I am curvy and work that well. My sadness comes from being judged for limping. I can be dressed to the nines but when I walk some people assume my value. Unless you see me in a bikini or nude my other medical issue is hidden. It isnt a big deal and my partner would never have to deal with it. I had a life saving surgery a year ago and have an ostomy. I want someone who know better or will ask me questions rather than assume. Just like anyone else I can have sex...although i have not due to not putting myself out there anymore...and no there is not anything gross you have to deal with. Youtube it. Hey I think I am damn sexy in my bra and panties and would have no problem strutting my stuff for the right person. It has been four years since Ive been kissed, held hands or anything. I withdrew and wondered if anyone would want me as a partner and if my love for passion and learning every inch of my partner would that be a turn off. I want a great friend who I could eventually fall for then...well all things go between to consenting adults. I can I said its been years...but I look for ward to unleashing this pent up aggression, passion, longing for skin and to be touched until I forget my name.
On the first dateI want you to decide and as long as you treat me like a lady it matters not if it is a day at the beach or dinner at the finest. A ham sandwich with a stimulating person that finally makes me have the pitter patters is all I ever ask and pray for. If you give me an inch I will repay with that and a lil more to show I am interested and want an equal not a daddy...but I do seek that protector type even if its only a mental protection.

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