Before injury I was a highly effective and skilled medical professional. I loved my job and my friends. Everything changed after my fall. Besides a limp and the occassional blonde days...lol. I am still me. I have not dated since my accident. I am tired of pity and seek the same passion and chemistry I had before. I am no different. It just takes some more time to prep to go out. I have been made fun of and it has hurt my self esteem greatly...I would love to lie and say that isnt the fact but when a man doubts that I could ever run a organ and tissue transplant and research facility or that I am a very erotic person. They dont get to that point because I shut them down with the first put downs. I have held out for the right guy...no pity date or hook up for me. If you cant spin my head and body with your charisma and intrigue then I just dont allow the physical to come out. I have dated someone with terminal cancer before my accident so your physical limitations..no matter what they are... will not deter me. Approach me like a woman. Treat me like you would like to be treated and lets see where it goes.