Hi I am a real, honest, loving, caring, smart, independent, sweet, shy at first until I get to know you, can be blunt as well s faithful, loyal, christian woman .Not a nag, polite I am looking for the a man that is the same to start out as friends and see where it goes. I like reading, writing poems, watching tv and movies, listening to music, family, like...drives in country, It's so much easier to talk then to writes for me. hand holding, cuddling, a man that likes to help with any thing, talks, watching rain and snow, reading, internet, drawing, learn new things. I do have to say I have some health issues. Nothing dangerous. But I do have back problems and have a hard time meaning pain when walking, standing. But I'm not a big complainer. I may moan and goan at time getting up. lol. I don't take pain meds, I use a tens unit. It would be wonderful to have a understanding man that would be willing to help me by maybe slow walking etc. Also I'm having hard time getting use to glasses. And fibromyligia and chronic Lymes. I'm not a nag. No man could ever say that. I just want everyone to know I do have health issues. Plus I used to be thin.due to not not being able to get out and try walking etc, I've gained. Plus I have diabetes and I have it in excellent control by the way I eat. I should be thin. I'm me and I am proud of being the decent woman I am. I've been through a lot, but haven't we all. I'd like to have a sweet understandin man if only as a friend. I feel to many people just want a beautiful lady or handsome man on their arm to show off. I'm much more deeper then that. I'm not vain nor think i'm all that and a bag of chips. I am ME ! If your looking for slim beautiful ladies, you would of had to met me when I was younger. But i'm still the same person inside and nothing will change me. If your not serious please save your self and me the time. I can't stand dishonest players! Many blessings